The chapter and PowerPoint presentation reinforces the idea that our sense of self can affect how one communicates to others. The video below illustrates the concept of self sabotage or self fulfilling prophecy discussed in your reading.First, write a paragraph where you offer suggestions on how this individual could improve his confidence or communication with others? List and explain at least three specific ideas.
Next, watch the below video on how to improve communication with others.Afterwards, try to use the technique mentioned by the communication professor three times in the coming week. You can use it with coworkers, friends, significant others or children, strangers, in person, over the phone or video calls. Whatever works for you, try it three times.
Then, write one paragraph total about the experience addressing the following:
- How did it affect the other person(s) in the conversation?
- Did they add or talk more to you, or seem like they felt they were “heard”?
- How did it impact you? Was it difficult or easy to use?
- Did you learn more you might not have otherwise?
The takeaway is that our sense of self certainly has an impact on our communication with others, BUT our conversations with others can be improved and changed over time with deliberate or intentional actions that we choose to take.
In summary, write one paragraph about the first video and three suggestions for that person. Then write a second paragraph where you discuss how others reacted to your use of the technique explained in video two and what you learned in trying it out.
